(language warning) I started today with plans for a date tonight. And I ended it with a dude calling me huge. This is my dating life. It's nbd (no big deal. people know that, right?) I deal with this shit all the time. Ghosting is only the beginning of my #girlgonedating stories. And they recently ended with being called huge. This guy and I recently started talking on facebook/tinder/text and ultimately decided to meet tonight. We had typical get to know you conversation, fa

According to reddit there are two rules for online dating. 1 - Be attractive 2- Don't be unattractive Let's be honest, with the current swipe culture this is the reality of it. But there are still lots of things you can do to improve your profile. Let's start with your pictures. The first one needs to be a clear shot of you and only you, best if it's a headshot so that the people swiping you can get a very clear idea what you look like and if they find you attractive. With th

*language warning in the image. I've been wanting to write about this for a while now, but it's hard to know where to start. I thought it might be easiest to tell you all about myself so that hopefully you can understand me and where I'm coming from. From a pretty young age I knew that I wasn't interested in marriage or kids. This isn't to say I don't want to settle down with one person for the happily ever after we all want. I just never had a ticking clock pushing me to fin